July 2005 Archives

wedding blues

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This whole wedding thing has got me down. OK, not that I don't want to have the wedding, or that I hate weddings, it's the process of figuring out how to to have one without digging ourselves into a giant wormhole of debt from which we will never escape that's the most frustrating. We sort of know what we want...something on the small side, in a natural setting, DIY as much as possible. The "like-to-have"s are falling by the wayside (i.e., a live band, most caterers), as we've discovered how absolutely obnoxious prices become as soon as the word "wedding" is uttered.

For instance, the Picnic House in Prospect Park is $4000 just to rent for eight hours. That doesn't include food or anything. I could rent a giant farmhouse in Provence for a week for less than half that (just look on craigslist). The average price for most caterers, catering halls and restaurants in the NY area hovers around $150 PER PERSON. And that's on top of a rental fee for the space (usually). WTF? Did your food just get 10 times better or something? If I spent $150 on taking myself out to dinner, I could practically go to Nobu or something.

The wedding industry is ridiculous, and the more I see, the less and less I want to have anything to do with it. Perhaps Wayne and I will just rent a house up in Vermont for a week and cook for everyone who shows up.

Oh yes, and according to some statistic I found, the average wedding costs $22,000.

let's see if we can do it for less than $5000.

war of the worlds

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War of the Worlds wasn't as terrible as I thought it would be. Tom Cruise annoys me to no end, but I gave in to Wayne's desire to see a crappy blockbuster summer film (Batman Begins lost out by a hair). It was mildly entertaining, even suspenseful for the two hours, but once I left the theater I started poking holes in the logic of the movie. Maybe it's a bad habit of mine, but I I always try to poke holes in "aliens invade the earth" type movies. Perhaps it's because I enjoy reading science fiction, and the endings of this type of movie are almost always a cop-out (obviously because humans have to somehow triumph in the end).

Look at Signs, that movie with Mel Gibson and Joaquin Phoenix. What was the director thinking when the entire ending depended on the main characters discovering that they could destroy the aliens by throwing wateron them? So you're telling me that I'm supposed to believe that a bunch of aliens would choose to take over a planet covered with more than 80% water and NOT KNOW that they would die if they got sprayed by water? That would be like saying I'd walk on the moon without a spacesuit and be perfectly OK.

Same with War of the Worlds. (spoiler here) I don't understand how you could create an alien race, infinitely more intelligent than humans, at least intelligent enough to have faster-than-light-speed travel, giant tripod thingys with vaporizers, the ability to physically travel through LIGHTNING, etc. etc. etc. and yet not realize that micro-organisms will kill them.

Maybe I'm just thinking too hard and it's just supposed to be a fun movie.

shake shack attack

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i went to the shake shack two days in a row. I have to say that I'm really impressed with all of their food and i think the key to going to the shake shack is choosing a day when the weather is relatively crappy; otherwise you'll be on line for hours.

The first time, I got a shack burger and shared an order of fries and a chocolate shake with wayne. The burger was perfect - cooked to medium, it was dripping with juice and had a round, pleasing meaty flavor. The secret "shack sauce" was some kind of mayo mixture with spices, and it had just the right amount of tanginess. The american cheese (orange of course) was melted on just right - melty just before the point of being drippy. Best of all, it came it a little wax paper bag.

The shake was awesome...velvety and rich. So satisfying with the burger. The hot dog was excellent too, it had all kinds of tasty condiments piled on top of it (onions, green peppers, relish, pickles, and celery salt). What more can I say? Just go to the Shake Shack!

natural history

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wayne and I paid a visit to the Museum of Natural History yesterday. A nice change from seeing art...and a way to stay out of the heat for a bit. I actually haven't been there since before the planetarium was renovated, so that must've been in high school or something. It was a rather interesting trip, as I have memories associated with so many of the exhibits, down to specific display cases. Often it was just a feeling, of being so familiar and comfortable even though I probably couldn't have recalled those things before walking into the museum.

I remember the elephants in the African Mammals hall, where the lighting is so dim and the elephants feel like they're just looming over you. You'd think they'd spotlight the elephants or something; instead, there's a flash going off every twenty seconds or so, so a dad can get a picture of his kids all piled up on the bench in front of the lead elephant.

And then there's a display case illustrating the animal life that lives in the soil, all close up, with big glass models of worms and ants. That one always gave me the creeps, I'm not a big fan of worms. Especially when they're about five thousand times the size that they ought to be. And I still felt creeped out when I saw it yesterday, I tried not to look at it. Sort of like a kid who hides her eyes when she doesn't want to see the "scary" part of the movie.

I think the most interesting part (OK, well, to the "thinking" part of my brain, rather than my emotional part) was seeing how much the museum has changed in the past two decades. The museum is almost like an anthropological dig, you can see how people thought thirty, even forty years ago and compare it to what we value and how we communicate now.

For instance, I think the worst and most kitschy (and unloved) hall has to be the New York State Environment, plus the one next to it (something to do with trees - it's where the cross section of the giant redwood is). If you've been to the Natural History Museum, you probably can't even recall what that hall is, and I always remember skipping through it quickly as a way to get to point A to point B. It has wood paneling reminiscent of many a 70's basement, and the models are cheesy and neglected. Wayne and I practically fell asleep reading the text. It could have been interesting - there was a nice attempt at trying to explain the cycling of water in a lake through the four seasons - but it was just so...flat. I don't know how else to describe it.

In comparison, the Ocean Hall (the one with the giant whale hung from the ceiling) has had a complete overhaul very recently; it had slick interactive stations, giant videos, colorful display cases, and beautiful and subtle lighting. Interestingly enough, it was the presentation of the text that struck me the most. (OK, my designer geek side kicks in.) Everything was broken down into readable chunks - intro text, side text, callouts. Almost like a web page. Important terms were in color and in bold caps. The combination of these techniques allowed me to read the bits of information that I was interested in and skip what wasn't, and I didn't have information overload nearly as quickly as I usually do. In fact, I think I read a majority of the text in all of the display cases in that Hall. Which is a first for me - I usually end up skipping half of it. I think the videos were ingenious as well - when I became tired of reading, I could sit on a bench and watch three videos across the hall simultaneously, to give my brain a break from reading and actually observe footage of ocean life. Exhibition design has come a long way.

"Oho!" you say. "You're just prejudiced against older exhibition halls because the models are ugly and the rooms have wood paneling." Not so. I think that there's been a shift in attitude in what the Natural History Museum sees as its role in society, and it's really refreshing because I can see how people can be more engaged with the content and maybe take something important with them when they leave. Forty years ago, the museum was this cold authority that just told you how things are (it's a FACT), and that's the way they've always been, and "nature" is this thing outside of man (ok, well, there's the whole African/native american halls, - why are they in a museum of "Natural" history? - and that's an issue that I won't even get into here b/c I could go on for pages.). Nature is something that we control.

Now we are seen as a part of nature - and that we are affecting nature and destroying it (and in turn, destroying ourselves). Hence, there's a ton of the content in the Ocean Hall about ecology and earth consciousness and being an informed consumer. There's tons of text apologizing for thinking that we knew everything, but we're discovering new things everyday, and how exciting that is. But that a lot of it will be gone soon if we don't do something about it.

I know that all the little kids scurrying around the museum probably don't give a damn about any of what I've been thinking about, but maybe they'll come away from the museum, excited by what they've seen and learned, and take a little bit of that attitude with them into the world.

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